Divorce is one of the most common life transitions — yet for decades, it remained largely invisible in mainstream media. In this episode of the Drama-Free Divorce Podcast, host Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator at Jacobson Family Law, sits down with trailblazing journalist Ilyssa Panitz to explore how journalism can transform the way we understand and experience divorce.
With more than 25 years in media, Ilyssa built an impressive career covering entertainment, celebrity, and lifestyle news. But after enduring her own harrowing divorce, she made a bold pivot — becoming one of the first journalists to focus exclusively on divorce as a serious, life-altering topic worthy of thoughtful, compassionate coverage.
From Entertainment Journalism to Divorce Advocacy
In this conversation, Ilyssa shares how her personal experience reshaped her professional mission. What began as a deeply painful chapter became the catalyst for The Divorce Hour with Ilyssa Panitz, a syndicated radio show dedicated to education, empowerment, and honest conversations about divorce.
At a time when divorce was considered taboo, Ilyssa recognized the urgent need for reliable information and empathetic storytelling. Her work brings together attorneys, mediators, therapists, financial professionals, and survivors — creating a holistic picture of what divorce truly entails.
Expanding the Conversation with Ways Thru Divorce
Ilyssa also discusses her streaming television series, Ways Thru Divorce, now reaching viewers in over 100 countries. The series highlights diverse voices and experiences, reinforcing that while divorce looks different across cultures, the emotional impact — and the need for support — is universal.
Through global storytelling, Ilyssa continues to break down shame, reduce isolation, and remind people that divorce does not define the end of their story.
Using Media as a Tool for Healing
Throughout the episode, Cary and Ilyssa explore how access to information can be deeply empowering during divorce. For those who feel overwhelmed or alone, hearing real stories and expert insights can provide clarity, validation, and hope.
Ilyssa reflects on the most rewarding aspects of her work — knowing that her journalism helps people feel seen, supported, and less alone during one of life’s most challenging transitions.
Advice for Anyone Facing Divorce
Drawing from years of interviews and personal experience, Ilyssa offers heartfelt advice for those just beginning their divorce journey — and shares what she wishes she could tell her younger self.
This episode is a powerful reminder that education, empathy, and storytelling can change lives — and that there are many ways through divorce.
🎧 Listen to the full episode to hear Ilyssa’s inspiring journey and insights.
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