For many families, divorce becomes far more painful than it needs to be — not because separation is easy, but because the traditional divorce system often fuels conflict instead of resolving it.
In Episode 5 of the Drama-Free Divorce Podcast, Cary Jacobson speaks with Regina DeAngelis, founder of Family Transitions® Divorce Coaching & Mediation, about why divorce so often turns toxic — and how families can choose a better way forward.
When the Divorce Process Creates Harm
Regina’s insight comes from lived experience. Despite decades as a divorce attorney, she found herself navigating an adversarial system that escalated fear, anger, and mistrust during her own divorce — all while raising three children, including one with serious medical needs.
Her story highlights a critical truth: the system is often designed for battle, not healing.
Why Traditional Divorce Fails Families
Adversarial divorce frequently:
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Encourages “winning” over problem-solving
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Increases emotional and financial strain
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Puts children in the middle of adult conflict
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Damages long-term co-parenting relationships
For families already overwhelmed, this approach can cause lasting harm.
A Better Way: The 21st Century Family Transition®
Through Family Transitions®, Regina created a divorce model grounded in:
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Compassion and empathy
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Divorce coaching and mediation
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Future-focused decision-making
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Comprehensive agreements without court involvement
The goal is not just to end a marriage — but to help families transition with dignity, clarity, and respect.
Redefining the Future of Divorce
As more families seek alternatives to conflict-driven divorce, approaches like the 21st Century Family Transition® are reshaping what divorce can look like.
Divorce doesn’t have to destroy families. With the right support, it can be a thoughtful transition into the next chapter.
🎧 Listen to EP #5: A Better Way Through Divorce with Guest Regina DeAngelis on the Drama-Free Divorce Podcast.
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