Estate planning is often treated as something to “do later.” But for families navigating divorce, co-parenting, or blending households, estate planning is one of the most important steps you can take right now.
In a recent episode of the Drama-Free Divorce Podcast, Cary Jacobson sat down with Priscilla Castlebary, a Personal Family Lawyer who focuses on protecting Latinx families, blended families, and unmarried partners through proactive legal planning.
Their conversation highlights why estate planning isn’t just about wealth — it’s about clarity, protection, and peace of mind.
Why Estate Planning Matters During Divorce
Divorce changes everything:
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Beneficiaries
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Decision-makers
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Guardianship roles
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Financial responsibilities
Without updated estate planning documents, outdated plans — or no plan at all — can create confusion, conflict, and court involvement. Even individuals without significant assets need estate planning to ensure children are protected and trusted decision-makers are in place.
Estate Planning for Latinx and First-Generation Families
Many Latinx and first-generation families face barriers to estate planning, including:
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Cultural hesitations
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Language barriers
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Fear of government involvement
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Lack of access to clear legal information
As Priscilla explains, education and culturally competent planning help families preserve the wealth they’ve worked hard to build and ensure it stays within the family.
Blended Families and Unmarried Partners Need Special Planning
For blended families and unmarried couples, the law often does not reflect family reality. Without legal documents:
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Unmarried partners may have no rights
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Children from prior relationships may be unintentionally excluded
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Property and financial decisions can end up in court
Estate planning allows families to define their wishes clearly — instead of leaving decisions to default laws.
Guardianship Planning for Minor Children
Naming guardians is one of the most important — and emotional — parts of estate planning. Parents must consider:
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Temporary vs. permanent guardians
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Co-parent rights
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Cultural values
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Avoiding family conflict
Thoughtful planning ensures children are cared for by the people parents trust most.
Planning Ahead Means Less Conflict Later
At Jacobson Family Law, the goal is proactive planning — not crisis management. Estate planning during divorce or family transition helps families:
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Stay out of court
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Reduce conflict
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Preserve relationships
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Protect children and assets
🎧 Listen to the full episode of the Drama-Free Divorce Podcast for an in-depth conversation on how estate planning empowers modern families.
Learn more at jacobsonfamilylaw.com