
Divorce is rarely simple, and when one spouse is living with a disability, the process can feel even more overwhelming. Beyond the emotional weight of ending a marriage, there are unique legal and financial considerations to address. If you’re wondering whether you can divorce a disabled spouse—and what that process might look like—this guide will walk you through the key factors to consider, along with potential solutions and support.
Legal Considerations
Disability and Divorce Laws
Divorce laws vary by state, but disability itself is not usually a barrier to ending a marriage. You can file for divorce regardless of whether your spouse has a disability. However, if your spouse is unable to advocate for themselves due to the nature of their disability, the court may require that a guardian or representative be appointed to act on their behalf.
Property Division
The division of property, assets, and debts typically follows the same rules whether or not a spouse is disabled. Courts generally seek equitable distribution based on the length of the marriage, contributions of each spouse, and overall circumstances.
Spousal Support (Alimony)
A disabled spouse may have a stronger claim for spousal support if their disability limits their ability to earn income or maintain their standard of living. Judges will often consider:
-
Length of the marriage
-
Each spouse’s financial resources
-
The disabled spouse’s ability to work
-
Any caregiving responsibilities during the marriage
Child Custody
A parent’s disability does not automatically disqualify them from gaining custody or visitation rights. Courts prioritize the best interests of the child and evaluate each parent’s ability to provide a safe, nurturing environment.
Practical Solutions and Support
Mediation
Divorce mediation can be especially valuable in cases involving disability. A neutral mediator helps both parties communicate effectively and reach fair agreements, reducing conflict and stress.
Legal Counsel
Because divorce involving a disabled spouse can raise unique legal questions, working with an experienced divorce attorney is critical. They can guide you through property division, spousal support, and custody concerns, while ensuring your spouse’s rights are respected.
Disability Benefits
If your spouse receives disability benefits such as Social Security Disability Insurance (SSDI) or Supplemental Security Income (SSI), it’s important to understand how divorce may impact eligibility and benefit amounts. An attorney familiar with these issues can help you avoid unintended consequences.
Support Networks
Navigating divorce while managing disability concerns can feel isolating. Support from disability advocacy groups, therapists, or local support groups can provide both emotional and practical assistance.
Final Thoughts
Every divorce is unique, but when one spouse has a disability, the process requires additional care, planning, and support. Protecting your legal rights while ensuring that your spouse’s needs are addressed is essential.
At Jacobson Family Law, we understand the complexities of divorcing a disabled spouse. Our goal is to help you move forward with compassion, clarity, and confidence.
📞 Contact us today at 443-741-1147 or Schedule a Consultation to speak with an experienced attorney.
📘 Want to learn more? Download our Step-by-Step Guide to Divorce Mediation.
✉️ Join our mailing list and receive 25 Expert Tips from Divorce Lawyers to Save You Money!



